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Wednesday, March 7, 2007
a something or two i learned from a fren named FIZZ. thank u fer giving me d whole idea or saving a rship and keeping it from gg astray..
dun let arguements n misunderstanding affect everything
i have to agree during a few months of a relationship is like everyday is a valentine day..
its all about taking care n cherishing each other's heart
its all butterflies in the tummy
but after sometime, after u are comfortable around ur partner. u tend to show ur true self as in true colours la.
den its the beginnig of quarells n misunderstanding..!
i have to agree there's no such thing as a perfect relationship with no arguements..
but wen the time comes.. just face it with an open mind.
it is a period of testing ur realtionship
ok my point is
y couple quarell, its the part n process of you 2 to understand each other.
so u guys tend to disagree with things
this is good
cos u guys will learn n understand each other
therefore u guys will know each other weakness n strong point n therefore less quarells in the future
most relationship ends during quarells periods
that show both parties are not keeping an open mind
cmon dun break up just becos of misunderstanding
thats bullshit.
if thats the case both parties must have this 3..
COMPROMISE, GIVE IN & REASON OUT
without this, no point having a relationship
memang trust actually is the basic pillar
but the 3 things i mention is very impt
which i think all couples must realised n learn
remember both must keep an open mind to compromise, reason out & give in depending on the situation
thats y relationship dun last..
its really hard to understand if u have not been thru it..
but trust me a strong relationship is a relation where both parties are able to express their views freely
so in short arguements n quarells n misunderstanding is just a process where u guys are learning to understand each other.. therefore u guys tend to not agree with each other usually..
its the same theory.
talk things out wen everything is cool
just take a break to let things sink.
so its important to be positive n keep an open mind..
dun be shallow minded..
ever wonder why couples break up?
i always ask myself y couples break up
ikut perasaan...
using ur heart to make decisions.. but not their brain to think.
in relationship.. there are 4 stages..
1st - honeymoon period
2nd - quarells n arguements..
3rd - both begins to realised thing, kept an open mind n understand each other better.
4th - future planning cos they know they can go far.
usally relationship ends at 2nd stage..
im smiling when i read this.. its so fucking awesome!! don u think so? thanks FIZZ!!
12:14 AM
xoxo, ita.